build: add 'update' option for Vitest runner and corresponding tests

[mistrykaran91]

Fixes #32218

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What kind of change does this PR introduce?

• Bugfix
• Feature
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What is the current behavior?

We cannot pass --update option while running tests in Vitest

Issue Number: 32218

What is the new behavior?

We can pass --update option while running tests in Vitest

Does this PR introduce a breaking change?

• Yes
• No

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